>>7167
>So as a follow up...I'm pregnant!...a couple of months earlier than we planned. I've been having these feelings of nausea and breathlessness like I was about to go over the drop on a rollercoaster, then needed a nap afterward, so I took a test on a whim and it turns out we weren't as careful as we should have been a few weeks ago. From wifey I got bubbling excitement and from husbando I got a swift collapse to his knees and an exasperated chastisement of my uterus for ruining his carefully planned budget, followed by actual tears of joy.
That's absolutely amazing news! Usually I'd say "You'll be a great mom!" But given the circumstances, it seems like you already are one.
>Now this puts the wedding plans in a new and more urgent light, so the whole thing is inescapable for my parents and soon-to-be in-laws, which they're pushing back against. They're not outright saying they'll refuse to be there, but they're certainly hinting at it and refusing to help with it or be involved in the planning/preparation.
Assuming they want what's best for their children and grandchildren, and assuming you're doing what's best for each other and for your children--then perhaps their attitude may change in the future. That said, it's irresponsible for me to speculate or to assume that I can fully comprehend your situation. I've never been in your sh