/cuckquean/ - Women sharing their men.

lol where did you find that?

>>2285 (OP) 
Trawl through the content in her folder, tease her relentlessly about the themes present in the situations and types of girls occurring, and then when we're out in public, remind her of everything that resembles the content in her folder.

>>2285 (OP) 
https://youtu.be/7SglORAYhMc?t=1184

Oh hey, I found it.
https://yuki.la/r9k/57647671

>>2305
What a great thread
>Ruby keeps getting betrayed

>>2323
Dunno, find it kinda disgusting how those anons turned it into being about male cuckoldry and pathetic roleplay to that effect. Still a few good posts I guess.

>>2324
>find it kinda disgusting how those anons turned it into being about male cuckoldry and pathetic roleplay to that effect
This.

>>2324
it's r9k what did you expect?

>>2324
fr, some fags really ruin everything :/

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>>2285 (OP) 
>gentlemen, how do you handle the situation?
If she wants to pursue it I wont object but all I'm gonna do is shrug and put on a stupid face like this. but also seriously start working out more because of how self conscious I am already.

>gentlemen, how do you handle the situation? 
A very long and drawn out conversation if she wants to pursue it and also relentlessly calling her "quean"

>>2447

I'd call mine "Quean" but in the Ugnanda Knuckles accent.

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>>2285 (OP) 
>gentlemen, how do you handle the situation? 
outside: "oh, honey, there's nothing to be embarrassed about, we can talk about this like adults."

inside:

Dont know where else to put this and dont want to create a new thread so...

https://lolcow.farm/g/res/79947.html

Check this thread out.

>>2611
buncha combative cunts in that thread who can't understand the difference between having a fetish and making it real. Mostly not worth the read but I liked this bit:
>I'm desperate and guys with long-term gfs give the best head so there's that.

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>>2285 (OP) 
I don't know if I would ever go through with actually doing it IRL unless we went to a LOT of deliberation beforehand. But I would absolutely LOVE to have a cuckquean gf nevertheless. All I want is to make her sit on my lap and then start quietly talking to her ear about how I'd fuck each and every one of her pretty friends with my deep, smug voice, smirking as she blushes and buries her face in her hands, begging me to stop but also getting uncontrollably wet. Oh how much fun we'd have exploring all the different ways I could tease her about it!

>>2285 (OP) 
>found out
now fuck around

>>2285 (OP) 
Play cuckquean porn while you fuck.

>>2285 (OP) 
I know how to because I did. She's not really into teasing/abuse, but she is really into compersion. Mostly she's just really, really into the fact that I last way longer than she does in bed, and she really like the idea of me fucking my way through a harem while she's in a corner so well fucked she couldn't join in even if she wanted to.

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Not sure if relevant to the thread and sorry if males are not normally allowed to post openly in this board but did not know where else to ask. I recently found out that my fiancée is a quean after  I was falsely accused from a third party that I was cheating. At the beginning I thought she was baiting me into admitting guilt but right now I am rather convinced she gets off to the prospect of me fucking other girls. How do you think I should handle this?

polite self-sage in case my question is not appropriate for the board

There's a thread for that:
>>2371

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I would never date a tranny which is what made that post in the first place. 

But on the off chance my gf had that folder after (pic related) I'd instantly ask if she has any girlfriends that share this fetish so we can play it out. Anything for you baby

>>2814
im a cis man anon.

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>>2833
ha, you cant trick me!

Happened to me but unfortunately my fiancé is too much of a socially awkward beta to go anywhere with it, so we are kinda stuck in the awkwardness of the situation with me being a bit more open to expose my powerlevel during roleplay.

>>3486
Did you actually let him know it's something you want IRL? He probably thinks it's just one of those things that get kept strictly to fantasy.

>>3487
Maybe it's better that way because he had trouble flirting with girls and it makes him anxious and I don't think I'm a skilled enough wingwoman to compensate for it.

>>3488
Maybe. Mine had to brush up on his pickup a little and stay in shape, but talking to girls never gave him the sweats or anything. If he's the anxious type then it might all be extra pressure, not to mention the guys who get worried the whole thing will be used as a bargaining chip down the road.

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>>3486
>calling your own fiancé an awkward beta
You two gonna be OK, Anon?

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>>3491
>tall
>handsome
>dark yet green eyed
>White
>broad shouldered and strong 
>relatively athletic build 
>intelligent
>educated
>common interests
>hygienic
>stoic
>socially trained enough to pose as a normalfag despite his introversion and hate for crowds
>kind without being a bleeding heart hippie
>cuddly in bed
>excellent endurance in bed
>not a prude in bed
>always eager for naughty time
>7 inches starting

vs

>not being a confidence-radiating asshole 24/7
>not being able to maintain superficial flirty  conversations for long with other women
>being a bit self-conscious about it

Sounds like an easy choice to me. Not saying "beta" in a pejorative way, I just cringe in the thought of the terms ligma/sugma male.

I honestly do not know why it was such a struggle for him to make and maintain a relationship prior to me, especially when I've met some of his exes and were barely above average.

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>>3496
Sounds like mine; he’s not going to have any trouble cucking you once he’s convinced you want it for real.

No terabyte of cuck porn here but I had alluded to such kinks long before I had started being official with my husband.  I knew I was a quean since my crush in middle school ended up dating the new girl who was literally perfect  Unfortunately he ignored much of it at the time and would dismiss it now. I think he’s too much of a serial monogamist to go for it anyway, despite many women indicating their interest in him (he’s very attractive, especially for our country’s standards). Fuck me for choosing a good man I guess?

>>3498
Hope cuckqueaning does not turn out like anal for me, extremely hot as a fantasy but impossibly painful in practice. If it's not it might solve my issue with anal too.

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>>3501
>No terabyte of cuck porn here

>>3502
It’s a little like anal in that you’ve got to work your way up to it; take it slowly, carefully, and in stages at first, properly feel out what the right way for you is. And if it turns out the full thing doesn’t work at all then you can just keep it to whatever enjoyable play you discovered along the way.

>>3501
>would dismiss it now
Sometimes it just takes the right angle to help them properly understand, but you know your husband better than we do.

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>>3502
I agree with >>3505
We all have our own level of comfort with this fetish, and there's nothing wrong with you if you just want to roleplay. If going all the way is too much, you can pick out porn for your man to watch, maybe let him watch it on a tablet as you ride him? I've seen some hot 2D depictions of this, seems like it would be fun.

>>3496
>7 inches starting
Ok, going to out myself as a weirdo here, but is anyone else here more interested in what that mouth do than what he's packing? I know I'm pretty bi so even having a dick isn't a strict requirement for me, but I kinda don't care what hardware a guy has if he's otherwise kind, handsome, and willing to let me sit on his face.

>>3506
>you can pick out porn for your man to watch, maybe let him watch it on a tablet as you ride him?
This can turn out real fun. I’ve done it a few times, except I like it more when I’m trapped under him so I feel nice and held down, plus that way he can control the pace. Also, I picked out 2D rather than video of 3D because that’s more both our taste.

Another thing I can suggest is to lie snuggled into him with your eyes closed while he thrusts up into his hand (an onahole might also work but we haven’t tried it). The sounds, movement, and a bit of imagination make for a real good time. If it’s your thing you can add stuff like kissing and nipping him, cupping his balls, talking dirty in either direction, or getting his other hand down between your legs. Gotta be careful he doesn’t focus on you too much with the last one, though, especially if he’s still getting used to the idea that he should be focusing elsewhere. If that becomes a problem but you still want that part then try having him crook his middle finger and hold it still while you hump it.

>is anyone else here more interested in what that mouth do than what he's packing?
Why not both? Too big has actually sometimes been a problem for us, though it makes for a pretty good show when he uses it on someone else.

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>>3507
>Also, I picked out 2D rather than video of 3D 
Naturally! 3DPD, after all.

>Another thing I can suggest is to lie snuggled into him with your eyes closed while he thrusts up into his hand
>The sounds, movement, and a bit of imagination make for a real good time.
>If that becomes a problem but you still want that part then try having him crook his middle finger and hold it still while you hump it.
This all sounds really wonderful. I've seen other tips around the for cuckqueans without a vixen, and I love all of them. As someone who would realistically struggle to tell my partner I'm into all this, having ways to making him feel good while also getting the cucked feelings is fantastic. I just have to be sure to not save them as "Cuckquean Sex tips.txt"

>Why not both?
I wouldn't mind both, I guess, I just don't care about size as long as it's of instertable length. I really just have no preference at all for size, and that feels really weird to say since I've never met anyone else with that sentiment. Heck, I had girltalk with some coworkers once and one was having boyfriend troubles with him being emotionally abusive and we told her "girl, you need to get out of there" and then she said " I can't, you just don't break up with a guy who has a dick that big" and EVERY other girl there said "ooooohhhhh, ok yea we understand." I was appalled, it was like someone saying "yea, he's abusive, but he likes pork over chicken and I can't take my chances trying to find another guy out there who is a pork supremacist." That is an extreme case, and no shade at all to ladies with preferences, you do you girl. If i ever wind up with a big dick guy, I'll do my best to get cucked extra hard so more women can benefit. For the greater good Emperor.

>>2285 (OP) 
I would ask her if it's just a fantasy or does she entertain the idea of me fucking other women. I would not push her towards anything as that would feel like cheating, but calling her quean would be a must.

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>>3509
>I just have to be sure to not save them as "Cuckquean Sex tips.txt"
Damn right you shouldn't; the proper filename is "Cuckquean Sex tips to store on desktop BOYFRIEND DO NOT LOOK teehee.txt"

>I'll do my best to get cucked extra hard so more women can benefit.
I once had a vixen message me with thanks after she'd hooked up with my bf overnight; something to the effect that the rest of womankind appreciated my generosity. Didn't expect her to put it like that, but it was nice.

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>>3509

>"I can't, you just don't break up with a guy who has a dick that big"

I get it from a conceptual level but in practice I've only ever used a 7-inch toy (only 6 of which is insertable those manufacturers are lying whores) + medium thickness and I've been happy with it. once again, the fantasy of getting rekt by a huge dick is nice but dear god that just sounds painful in practice. I think more women who end up size queens should try getting their boyfriends to try sleeves like picrel, literally pick your bf's dick size on a whim. I mean it's not directly pleasurable for him but there's a million opportunities to make each other cum anyway, plus nothing stopping him from fucking you normally anyway during the same session or in other session. I think the reason so many women nod along to that statement is just how conversation works. what, are they going to interrupt and go "well I think dick size isn't that important and you're kind of being superficial"? of course not, I've seen dudes agree to some superficial or sexist shit their friends say when they don't hold those views on their own. normies are conformist by nature.  I mean even if a woman is superficial all you really have to do is be good at other aspects or sex, use toys and things like picrel and just generally be willing to drop your ego enough to have sex outside of just plowing full steam ahead to feel like some generic alpha chad shit.

all realistic talk aside the idea of having a bf with a huge dick obliterate some small vixen with it is fucking hot.

>>3876
All else aside, my giggling brain immediately labelled that picture as a "cope condom". It seems kind of humiliating to me, like if he had you wear an onahole insert, but then again what do I know? Actually, I could swear I saw some humilation-driven quean come up with the onahole insert idea years ago as part of a throwaway fantasy...

>all realistic talk aside the idea of having a bf with a huge dick obliterate some small vixen with it is fucking hot.
It's pretty hot in the flesh as well.

>>3883
>kind of humiliating

I mean isn't all non penetrative sex kind of humiliating for a guy to participate in by that standard? Any lesbian using a strap-on. I'm sure most guys would find the idea humiliating though and "cope condom" is funny as fuck though. But at the end of the day if you swallow pride sex is about mutual pleasure by whatever (ethical and safe) means. Isn't cuckqueening an embodiment of that anyway? Feels kind of fucked up to not have that be a two-way street. But I must reiterate that "cope condom" ist geld

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>>3897
>I mean isn't all non penetrative sex kind of humiliating for a guy to participate in by that standard?
"Going down on a girl is humiliating" does not follow from "it is humiliating for a guy's partner to ask that he wear a thick plastic shell on his penis because it is too small to satisfy her otherwise". 

>I'm sure most guys would find the idea humiliating though
Well, there you have it.

>Feels kind of fucked up to not have that be a two-way street.
Cuckqueaning is cuckqueaning rather than swinging specifically because it is not a two-way street.

>>3902
>"Going down on a girl is humiliating" does not follow from "it is humiliating for a guy's partner to ask that he wear a thick plastic shell on his penis because it is too small to satisfy her otherwise". 

"Your dick alone isn't enough to make me cum, spend focus, time, and effort (none of which is directly pleasurable to yourself) to kneal down and use your mouth on my cunt" is exactly what men whining about how emasculating it is to go down on women say. Men who feel angry or humiliated over being asked to use toys in the bedroom say the same too. You sound more like an angry incel than some actual incels I've known.

>Well, there you have it.
People being humiliated by something doesn't mean it's actually humiliating. It just means their insecure in themselves.

>Cuckqueaning is cuckqueaning rather than swinging specifically because it is not a two-way street.

I mean the mutual interest in the enjoyment of both parties, understanding and care of both parties, and making sexual accommodation for both parties. That mutual interest is what makes it cuckqueening instead of a guy manipulating you into accepting him cheating. All fetish aside most people here (myself included) would be pissed and betrayed if their boyfriend/husband just up and fucked another chick if it hadn't already been an established freedom for him to do in the relationship or if he did with a person or in a way that violated boundaries set. The two-way street is giving a shit about your partner even if they don't immediately meet your exact desires. Why would I give a flying fuck if he had to put something like that on? I'm interest in good sex not the means by which it's achieved. Hell like 30% of women can't cum from peneration alone anyway and only 40% cum from penetration alone from a guy with a 8inch dick on average (34% from guys with 6in dicks if you're wondering what the average is). Modern stuff like that allows you to have your ideal fun with a partner who may not live up to it naturally. Still can't get over "Cope condom" though that phrase is a keeper


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>>3903
>exactly what men whining about how emasculating it is to go down on women say. Men who feel angry or humiliated over being asked to use toys in the bedroom say the same too.
I'm afraid I wouldn't know what such men think or say; I have not (to my knowledge) encountered one in any way that matters, nor do I feel the need to seek any out. I suspect they are not a very good yardstick. Perhaps you might ask a well-adjusted, sex-having man who is otherwise happy to give oral and use toys what he would feel about being asked to wear the cope condom?

>People being humiliated by something doesn't mean it's actually humiliating. It just means their insecure in themselves.
What criteria do you use to determine if something is humiliating, if not that it humiliates?

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>>3903
>Why would I give a flying fuck if he had to put something like that on? I'm interest in good sex not the means by which it's achieved.
Because it turns an act of mutual sensation and exchange into one of dildo-driving? Why not just give the guy a strap-on and then ask him if he's having gOoD sEx too? Jesus christ anon, this is some real gymnastic shit.

it's getting a little tough out there these days, huh

>>3904
You're honestly lucky to have not encountered the guys who whine about giving oral. Plenty of em on Twitter if you'd like to drop by that cess pool. 

People shouldn't feel humiliated by things they can't help nor by the solutions to those things. A guy should feel humiliated over childish behavior like freaking out on a partner for asking them to use toys or "cope condoms"(tm) but not for needing them in the first place. If it's not something behavioral or choice based then I don't consider it humiliating and therefor not somethi g someone should feel humiliated about. It's just being a judgey twat otherwise


>>3905
You're on a board full of cucks, who post images of and talk about getting cucked, telling someone that a sexual exchange where one party in the relationship doesn't recive direct sexual pleasure from the other is a negative thing. Anon please

>>3905
>turns an act of mutual sensation and exchange into one of dildo-driving
I think it's more than just that; the whole framing of sex and its purposes this argument implies feels very... artificial, somehow. The sensation is there, but the calories aren't, and the aftertaste has that unmistakably chemical edge.

>>3906
No kidding, yeah.

>>3907
I don't think there's anything further we can say about this; there seems to be a pretty fundamental divide in sexual attitude and philosophy at play.

>>3908
>I don't think there's anything further we can say about this; there seems to be a pretty fundamental divide in sexual attitude and philosophy at play.

Yeah everyone's time good be better spent on disappinting our parents with this fetish. It really is just a fundemental disagreement but I do get where you're coming from on it. Peace anon

Previous anon may have peaced but I'm gonna take the bait.

>>3903
>"Your dick alone isn't enough to make me cum, spend focus, time, and effort (none of which is directly pleasurable to yourself) to kneal down and use your mouth on my cunt" is exactly what men whining about how emasculating it is to go down on women say. Men who feel angry or humiliated over being asked to use toys in the bedroom say the same too. You sound more like an angry incel than some actual incels I've known.

There's a difference between "I can't cum from penetration alone, so please supplement with other methods" and "I can cum from penetration, just not your inadequate equipment, so please wear this very obvious visual aid that demonstrates the exact breadth of your shortcoming."

Also, if he uses a normal toy on you then you can still reciprocate by giving him a bj or handy or whatever, while making him wear the sensationless sleeve of shame is intentionally precluding pleasure for his main erogenous zone.  He can't even jack his dick while you ignore it. If he's not okay with that then it's frankly selfish to demand it.

>>2285 (OP) 
>gentlemen, how do you handle the situation? how do you tease your gf? is there anything specific you wanna try?
I wouldn't tease or anything, it's the kind of thing that could just be a fetish that is enjoyed in porn or could be something that someone wants to do for real and it could be something uncomfortable for her either way.

>>3507
Yeah, due to mild vaginismus it even two lubed fingers felt painful and seemed to me nigh impossible to take something bigger than 7' and I was kinda weirded out by the fantasies and occationally obsession of other women and porn artists with potentially lethal sizes but, after I acquired this quean fetish, projecting  my fiancé into the image of FUCKING DESTROYING petite girls is admittedly kinda hot ,even if still sort of  grotesque.

>>3912
Agree with that and to expand from my experience, when we started having penetrative sex it was PURE SHEERING PAIN for me to the point of only getting off to the skinship and psychological factors of the facts while the penetration was per se to painful to feel any sensational pleasure by. Within a span of weeks it became much more tolerable and after a couple of months it became far more pleasurable than painful. Today I can take it with no issue and almost no pain most of the times. 

IMO if you train yourself past your man's natural then you are kinda setting yourself for future lack of satisfaction on both parties.

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>>4037
>Within a span of weeks it became much more tolerable and after a couple of months it became far more pleasurable than painful. Today I can take it with no issue and almost no pain most of the times.
That must've been a relief. Has kinda been the opposite for me: When we first started, I could take him no problem, pain was very rare (except for times when he decided to lengthen his fuse, I'd be a little sore afterwards), and he said I fit him perfectly. But gradually, over the span of years, I've been getting tighter no matter how often he breaks me back in. We have to be much more careful and can't go for long rough sessions anymore.

He's big but not monstrous and I've seen girls who're shorter and more petite than me take it down to the root no problem so I dunno, maybe I just have a naturally narrow vag.

>>4036
Never understood it either, but IIRC even the Kama Sutra has a classification of vaginal and penis sizes ("deer", "horse", etc.) and mentions that they should be matched properly. I think in visual mediums it's natural to use big dicks because it means the depiction is more... more.

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>>4038
He claims that's it's physiological but I had my doubts so gave it some online research and though I'm kind of reluctant to "trust the science" apparently current consensus seem to be that vaginismus is psychological and women let less tight when familiarized and can relax.
>mfw

Completely my hypothesis but maybe with long time relationships overfamiliarization and desensitization has the opposite effect, like neglecting foreplay or not getting as aroused and therefore wet as you used to be. Maybe trying artificial lubing?

>>4039
>Maybe trying artificial lubing?
Been doing that for a long time, but thanks for the suggestion. We've been using some pretty good stuff, but maybe we'll experiment with other different kinds, see if maybe there's now something out there that'll work better.

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>>4041
Yeah, they also have different kinds, like tingling or warming. Maybe a nice warmth could signal your troublesome love canal that it's time to relax and not create a Suez situation?

>>4038
kek

>>4048
I don't think it's anything to do with tension, unless it's some special kind of tension that cuts my muscles off from knowing where they are. But I'll happily throw out whatever preconceptions I have in the name of not feeling like acid has been smeared around the inner entrance of one's vagina, and warming lube probably won't hurt.

But there's a bigger problem: Your post has made me imagine a couple panicking as the guy's penis somehow detaches and lodges sideways in the girl's canal, and I'm probably going to remember it during a compromising situation, burst out laughing, then have to explain myself.

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>>4039
>overfamiliarization and desensitization has the opposite effect
Wait a minute, are you suggesting the cure for vaginismus is spicing up the sex with an unfamiliar element? Such as an unfamiliar girl?

>>4055
>imagine a couple panicking as the guy's penis somehow detaches and lodges sideways in the girl's canal, and I'm probably going to remember it during a compromising situation, burst out laughing, then have to explain myself.
Preempt this by telling hubby you want to look at porn together during sex as a forerunner to cuckquean play, then show him Suez Canal blockage porn. The laughter will relax your vag because it is the best medicine.

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>>4059
>The laughter will relax your vag because it is the best medicine.
That's just science; can't argue with science. Or giantesses. (Thank you, Ever Given fan artists, for not  immediately including crush, vore, or any of the other elements oft paired with giantesses.)

>>3905
Don't give him a strapon for that reason. Give him a strapon so you can lie on top of the other woman and he can fuck you both at the same time. Vixen gets the real dick, of course.

If vixen isn't available you'll just have to take both the real and fake appendage and pretend your man is some kinda monsterboy, like a lizard lad.

Do everything in my power to pretend that it was normal porn

Or flip it around and gaslight her into thinking she’s the bull cucking the other woman as a self esteem thing I guess. Not sure if my bluff stat’s high enough though.

I always lurk and don't post to avoid shitting up a board made for women as a male-anon but this has happened to me (how I found out this fetish was a thing subsequently 8chan and then here) and I ended up breaking up with her over it. Not because I have some weird moral objection to it but because I had little interest in it due to not being cool with infidelity from her. I wouldn't accept her fucking other dudes, not what she wanted to do and even though she was 100% down to have it be one sided (though she would be getting something more abstract out of it) that wouldn't have sat right with me. I just didn't want to do something I wouldn't accept from her, giving at least what you expect from your partner always seemed like a default thing you should do.

It's weirdly flattering but it also kind of made me feel weirdly objectified when she approached me about it after the initial awkward silence on the matter. I now get why women get so grossed out when their boyfriend comes out of nowhere with 3-some and cucking requests. Sorry that the answer of "well I didn't like it and we broke up" probably isn't very fetishistically satisfying  (or idk maybe some of you get off on rejection and humiliation or some shit)

I tried to accept it and get into it, the ways I "teased" her when I tried to get into it for her where mainly that I started talking to her about my exes when we fucked. Told her about the ways they made me feel, the shit they did for me, to me etc. Talked to her about how I might just get a little more friendly with female co-workers and friends she knew I was close to (never did, I liked them platonically and this was all talk) and made some implication about the time I spent alone with them (once again, zero sexual shit happened but I knew she liked the idea so I rolled with it during dirty talk). I spent time describing other women I've had crushes on and what made them hot to me during foreplay (many of those traits being things she didn't possess or making sure she knew they had them better than her) and told her how I'd be thinking about them the whole time. Just lots and lots of talk with no action. She liked and pushed for more of it, it got sort of exhausting not having normal sex without cuck based dirty talk. The way I describe it must be rather awkward, I'm phone posting at 2am and write mostly academia and not smut. 

Lots of shit she pushed for that I just sort of dodged until we broke up: wanted to see about female chastity devices, talked about hiring a prostitute for me to fuck while she watched, inquired about my past gay experiences and wanted to see me fuck other men (male gay shit not permitted here so details omitted), wanted a setup where I used flashlights instead of her cunt, wanted to try anal only sex for a set amount of time (the time she wanted to do it for when she talked about it bounced between 1 week to a month), wanted to try hooking me up with women online etc. 

After a point it became clear she was a lot more serious about the fetish than I was and it was something she wanted to be a major part of our sex life. That just wasn't something I could deal with. No putting the genie back in the bottle with it so I ended up breaking off the relationship. This was a span of about 8 months from finding out about the fetish to breaking up. I lied and said the fetish had nothing to do with it so she wouldn't feel shamed over an ultimately harmless personal preference of hers. We just weren't compatable I guess. I gained a mild liking for it in fantasy (hence my occasional lurkings here) but it just doesn't work for me in practice, makes me feel shitty and used when I consider doing it. Who knows, depending on when that thread was posted it could have been her for all I know (almost certainly not but it's a neat thought)

>>4112
>I lied and said the fetish had nothing to do with it so she wouldn't feel shamed over an ultimately harmless personal preference of hers.

This is where you pulled the retarded anon, don't pull the retarded. 
Why didn't you sit her down and discuss your opinion on the fetish like a normal functioning adult? Communication is key to every aspect of a relationship, and you clearly didn't communicate your feelings. Is saying
>hey honey, I'm not utterly comfortable doing all these things you are proposing.
that hard?

>>4126
I sure a random dude is going to take online fetish board advice into his real world dating plans.

But yeah that's fucked to break up with someone after zero communication because of a fetish (not even some insane shit like pedo or zoo)

>>2285 (OP) 
>gentlemen, how do you handle the situation?
So, about your sisters and mom...
Jokes aside, I guess I would like to just hear her fantasies first before deciding what to do.
>how do you tease your gf?
Fuck her in front of her pc while yelling "Explain!".
Call her a commie.
>is there anything specific you wanna try?
Fuck a woman right next to her while she is cooking or doing something else that is not sexual.

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>>4112
You are the dumbest motherfucker alive. You ruined a perfectly good relationship because you can't talk your feelings through. You could just tell her "this is getting too much for me" and she'd be off with it. Hell, you could've man up and direct the entire relationship however you wanted since she gave you all the power and respect. But you had to pussy out. Now she blames herself for everything and is alone. Don't cry about being objectfied when you could have just stopped this whole shit by a gentle caress and bedside light talk.

>>5654
Ghosting immature creeps who you don't want to waste time getting dragged into (at best) dumb and boring shit is the correct response.

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>5655
This.

>>2285 (OP) 
>how do you handle the situation? 
Look through the folder to see if she's got anything good I can use.  I wouldn't press, though, enjoying stories about something is different from actually wanting it to happen to you or someone you care about.  I wouldn't tolerate a girl who had sex with other men, nor would I want her to openly talk about it, so I wouldn't do anything that would make her doubt my fidelity unless she specifically asked for it.
>how do you tease your gf? 
Watch harem anime with girls similar to her and keep asking her who she wants to win and why.  "Accidentally" call her the names of the characters that I prefer.  If she's not insecure about it, compare her to other girls we know that are better than her in some way.  Send her to the store and then text her to pick me up some pussy on the way back.
>is there anything specific you wanna try?
I really like the idea of a girl so devoted to my pleasure that she's willing to use other girls to get me off and, hopefully, earn a reward.  It could also be fun to be stolen away by a vixen and talking about how much better she is.  About the only thing that gets posted here that I would veto would be her going in chastity.

>>5655
Get a load of this cuck. You are the dumb boring creep against the topic of the board who clearly doesn't belong here.