>>9295
You made something of a faux pas in our board culture. Both in term of imageboards in general, and our local board. I actually commend you for not being one of the ones that has a sperg fit when people call you out on it.
On /cuckquean/, we have an assumption of foid status as a default, in the way that most boards have presumed moid status. Hence the "dick or gtfo" as opposed to the standard "tits or gtfo". This place is about what is primarily a female fetish, definitely a female focused one.
This does not mean that there aren't men here. We did a poll some years back and it was actually pretty evenly split, which makes it very female heavy for an imageboard, but certainly doesn't show an absence of males. That was when things were more active, so no idea now.
But it's also not that important what the demographics of the userbase is. It's an anonymous imageboard, and keeping identities and egos out of the mix is part of the point. On most imageboards, people respond poorly to women unnecessarily identifying their gender because it's done for attention. You'll find a similar reaction here to men identifying their gender. I wouldn't call it complete parity in the reasoning. I don't think people necessarily assume men who do this on /cuckquean/ are doing a male version of e-girling, exactly, but they are making things unnecessarily about themselves. Thus, the reaction is essentially the same.
This kind of ties into the cuckold thing. This board isn't about that. There isn't a "they're two sides of the same-" No. This is /cuckquean/. Not our thing here. It's also something that many people here will have a disdain for. Actually most people in the general population will have a disdain for it, but people here will have a sort of diametrical opposition to cuckoldry. Even for those who don't, it's still dragging in another fetish that doesn't belong, in much the same way that ego and identity don't belong.
It's also something of a red flag fetish for any community. There's a number of groups like that; furfags, blackedfags, futafags, etc. Groups that trigger a gatekeeping response from people, and for good reason. These groups, aside from having terrible fetishes to begin with, tend to have a lot of insufferable gooners with too much time on their hands. You show permissiveness towards them and let them feel comfortable, more of them will show up and flood your community with their vile garbage, and drive off everyone of value.
We've had problems with this before. As an example, there was this idea that some people floated some years back that the "other woman" can be a man. Seemed innocuous at first, up until it wasn't. A lot of posting that was at best tangentially related to cuckqueaning. Hence the first rule on the welcome thread. There's been enough of "muh dick" posters over time, who try to make stuff about them and their own unrelated fetishes, that people have a low tolerance for it.